"#whatifwednesday TLDR: would you date a sapiosexual?
Or I guess the better question is: would a sapiosexual date you?
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I already wrote about how every other profile I come across/every other real-life friend I have is into polyamory or ethical non-monogamy. This community has a lot of fun acronyms, so bios say fun things like: ānesting polyam pan enby šā This means: a non-binary, polyamorous, pansexual person with a live-in partner. Who is also on Bumble and searching for more people to add to their polycule.
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Pansexuality (being attracted to people regardless of their gender) and sapiosexuality (being sexually attracted to intelligence) are two identities that have been cropping up more and more as Iāve been swiping. I had a friend in high school who started identifying as pansexual in 10th grade, so Iāve been familiar with the term for a while. Ethan was generally a pain in the ass, and we had to share the senior creative writing award which Iām still bitter about - but I try not to hold that against other pansexuals.
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Pansexuality on a dating app makes sense to me - but how can you gauge someoneās intelligence from their photos and a few brief prompt responses? Should I be flattered if a sapiosexual sends me a like or a rose on Hinge? Would they still like me if they knew how much Iāve had to google these terms to understand whatās going on?
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Itās no surprise I like to make myself a drink to enjoy while I contemplate these pressing questions. @moresavorygoods goods posted a delicious peanut-butter-cachaƧa cocktail last week called Goodbye Sadness, and, being a PB aficionado, I had to riff on it immediately. So today we have the:
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āHello Madnessā
1.75 oz peanut butter whiskey
0.5 oz Nocelino - @maraska_zadar
0.5 oz passionfruit syrup
0.75 oz lime juice
2 dashes Ango bitters
Shake these up with ice for at least 30 seconds, then strain into an OF glass with fancy ice. Garnish with dehydrated lime and wonder if these dating apps are making you graysexual.
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Got any answers for me? Throw them in the comments šš»
The original Goodbye Sadness cocktail was on the menu at @bar.Cham before finding its way to @seoulsalon.nyc
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#whatifwednesday TLDR: would you date a sapiosexual?
Or I guess the better question is: would a sapiosexual date you?
š§
I already wrote about how every other profile I come across/every other real-life friend I have is into polyamory or ethical non-monogamy. This community has a lot of fun acronyms, so bios say fun things like: ānesting polyam pan enby šā This means: a non-binary, polyamorous, pansexual person with a live-in partner. Who is also on Bumble and searching for more people to add to their polycule.
š§
Pansexuality (being attracted to people regardless of their gender) and sapiosexuality (being sexually attracted to intelligence) are two identities that have been cropping up more and more as Iāve been swiping. I had a friend in high school who started identifying as pansexual in 10th grade, so Iāve been familiar with the term for a while. Ethan was generally a pain in the ass, and we had to share the senior creative writing award which Iām still bitter about - but I try not to hold that against other pansexuals.
š§
Pansexuality on a dating app makes sense to me - but how can you gauge someoneās intelligence from their photos and a few brief prompt responses? Should I be flattered if a sapiosexual sends me a like or a rose on Hinge? Would they still like me if they knew how much Iāve had to google these terms to understand whatās going on?
š§
Itās no surprise I like to make myself a drink to enjoy while I contemplate these pressing questions. @moresavorygoods goods posted a delicious peanut-butter-cachaƧa cocktail last week called Goodbye Sadness, and, being a PB aficionado, I had to riff on it immediately. So today we have the:
š§
āHello Madnessā
1.75 oz peanut butter whiskey
0.5 oz Nocelino - @maraska_zadar
0.5 oz passionfruit syrup
0.75 oz lime juice
2 dashes Ango bitters
Shake these up with ice for at least 30 seconds, then strain into an OF glass with fancy ice. Garnish with dehydrated lime and wonder if these dating apps are making you graysexual.
š§
Got any answers for me? Throw them in the comments šš»
The original Goodbye Sadness cocktail was on the menu at @bar.Cham before finding its way to @seoulsalon.nyc
Ingredients:
- Maraska Nocelino Chocolate
- Peanut Butter Whiskey
Instructions:
Shake these up with ice for at least 30 seconds, then strain into an OF glass with fancy ice. Garnish with dehydrated lime, and wonder if these dating apps are making you graysexual.
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